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Annual Conference Sunday Only - 6 CEs Dr. Marty Klein

  • March 06, 2016
  • 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM
  • Doubletree Skokie 9599 Skokie Blvd, Skokie, IL 60077 -- Versailles Ballroom


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IMHCA Annual Conference-Sunday

Sunday - March 6, 2016
Dr. Marty Klein

Topic: When Sex Gets Complicated: Pornography, Infidelity, & Cybersex

The number of patients involved in pornography, non-monogamy, sadomasochism, online eroticism, and sex toys has dramatically increased. Are we prepared to provide them quality therapy?

There are fundamental things about sexuality that the internet has not changed: the desire to feel desired; insecurity about “performance;” the search for the perfect partner; the yearning for connection—combined with the fear of intimacy; the desire for pleasure—and fear of sexuality’s power.

The internet, however, has increased everyone’s opportunities for sexual expression: 24-hour pornography; apps that feed the hookup culture; the flood of online information; sex toys for sale on Amazon (and; & Ashley Madison; platforms for every kind of sex work; and, um, let’s not forget 24-hour pornography.

With everyone’s old-fashioned brain and body attempting to function sexually in a post-modern world, new challenges have emerged for therapists, including:

* How can we help partners with contrasting sexual values talk with each other productively?
* After infidelity (online or offline), how do we hold both partners while they struggle to define their behavior, contract, and emotions? What if they don’t agree on the definition of “infidelity”? What if one partner wants to change their sexual arrangement?
* What is the structure of typical couples’ conflicts about pornography—and what are these conflicts really about? How do we help two adults negotiate meaningful agreements about their private sexuality when one or both of them feel sad, lonely, disappointed, or angry about their sexual relationship? How do we help someone who’s using porn in a self-destructive way?

The sexual problems people now bring us seem more complicated than they used to. People with diverse sexual practices are talking about them more. The internet creates new opportunities for experience—and for confusion, exploitation, bad decision-making, and heartbreak.

* How far is “too far” when sadomasochism is concerned?

* What is most pornography actually like?
* Is there such a thing as healthy use of pornography? If so, what does that look like?
* Is there such a thing as healthy non-monogamy? If so, how can we distinguish it from fear of intimacy or commitment?

* How do we respond when a patient says “that’s just internet play,” and their partner says, “no, that’s cyber-infidelity?”
* Is there such a thing as sex addiction? Porn addiction? Internet addiction? Why does it matter what we call it?
* What should we do if we simply disapprove of a patient’s sexual practices?

Sex is getting more complicated for everyone. This seminar will help clinicians navigate this increasingly complex world.

Don't miss this opportunity.

Early registration until January 6, 2016 only $75 for IMHCA members. $125 non-members

Workshop will be 6.0 CEs/PDs for LPC/LCPC; LSW/LCSW; LMFT; Psychologists.

Lunch is on your own.

Hours: 9am-4pm

Space is limited. This workshop will sell out.

Cancellation Policy.
Registrations, cancelled before seven days prior to the workshop, can be refunded minus a $20 administration fee. No refunds can be made seven days prior to the workshop. Workshops may be cancelled or rescheduled due to inadequate registration or other circumstances beyond our control. If IMHCA cancels a workshop due to inadequate registration, you will receive a full refund. IMHCA is not responsible for any loss or damage as a result of substitution, alteration, or cancellation of an event. IMHCA shall assume no liability whatsoever in the event that a workshop is cancelled, rescheduled or postponed due to fortuitous event, Act of God, unforeseen occurrences or any other event that renders performance of this conference impracticable, illegal or impossible. For purposes of this clause, a fortuitous event shall include, but not be limited to: war, fire, labor strike, extreme weather or other emergency. IMHCA will make every effort to offer a substitution event in the case IMHCA cancels because of a fortuitous event or Act of God.

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